I know this is somewhere toward the beginning of Chapter Two in your How To Be a Cordial Human Being manual that you should have received when you were born but I think it bears mentioning again that:
If you are behind an old person in line at the grocery store and that old, frail person is having trouble figuring out how to get their god forsaken ATM card through the little ATM thing and they, for the life of them, fall short in getting positive results in answering all the questions about:
AMOUNT OK? NO? YES? HOPEFULLY?
CASH BACK? YES? NO? MAYBE? NO IDEA?
WHAT IS THE TOTAL AMOUNT? HUH? BEATS ME? PROBABLY?
You should be patient and/or offer your kind help and do your best to settle the rest of the beasts in line behind you that have it our for the old person and in that way you’ll seal the deal the universe has with you that you aren’t a putz of a person.
Irma I’ma Help You With Your Troubles